Dance has Returned to my Life Although This Time with Chronic Pain
Something pretty amazing happened on December 15th,
2016. Dance returned to my life. It was
absent for close to 7 years due to a workplace injury (non-dance related job) on March 17th,
2010. My body went through trauma at the time of the injury which had left me
with neuropathic pain. I remember thinking on the Thursday it took place that
I’d be back at work on the Monday. Little did I know that almost 7 years later
I’d still be living with chronic pain.
When my injury took place I wasn’t able to walk more than 10
metres due to the severity of the pain. I went two years without knowing what
was wrong with me. Two years after my injury I met my chronic pain specialist
who has been a gem in my life. Both he and my GP are outstanding and have
guided and supported my decisions.
When I first met my Chronic Pain specialist he explained to
me what was going on in my body, he also told me that I wouldn’t be able to dance
again to which I broke down as dance was my everything. Started at the age of 3 and never looked
back. He later asked me to return with
my husband as it was all too much to take in. This time he mentioned that dance could/would
return in my life however not like it had in my past.
I was literally born into the dance world as my parents have
a Ukrainian Dance Company, 50 years this year! I performed throughout Canada, United States
and Japan and competed. I received my honours degree in Dance from York
University in Toronto. I choreographed and taught in studios, primary/secondary
schools, university, dance camps and ran workshops. I ate, breathed and slept
dance. In 2005 I decided to travel to Australia to obtain my Diploma in
Education as I wanted to teach dance in the school system here.
Everything though changed March 17th, 2010 and my
life stopped when I was injured working in a classroom. My passion had left my
heart due to the incredibly intense pain levels. I didn’t know what to do with
myself and was lost. I fell into depression and refused to talk about dance in
my therapy sessions. I remember telling one of my therapists that ‘dance’ was
placed in a treasure chest, chained and locked up at the bottom of the ocean
for no one to find…….but me. Perhaps there was a reason I didn’t want to talk
about dance. I would cry if I spoke about dance, struggled watching dance
videos and the 2 dance performances I did attend I cried, turned my head to
look at the ground with the occasional glance. My husband’s 40th I
was incredibly excited to watch the German dancers perform however as soon as
they came out I was flooded with emotion and abruptly walked out.
I was having trouble accepting my chronic pain. I hated that
I could only work part time and that too much of anything flared my back. My
husband and I decided to move to Yarra Glen end of 2015. We decided to move to
the country for a slower and more relaxed life. It was here, and in the last
couple months that I accepted my chronic illness.
December 15th, 2016 I saw an advertisement pop on
Facebook for the Yarra Valley School of Ballet. I checked out their website and
was very impressed. The Principal of the school was very well trained and we
had similar training. What was even more amazing was that the school was a 5
minute walk from my house…….if this wasn’t fate telling me ‘Dance’ was knocking
on my door saying you’re ready I don’t know what it was.
I emailed Nadia and told her about my background and about
my chronic pain. She responded with a beautiful message and shared with me
something she wrote when she was just 8 years old which was “ You must always
dance, somehow, someway, because it is what you are meant to do.” Wow….Wow I thought. I have to teach dance
again. It was like the last 7 years
closed up. That book was over and a new book opened.
We met and it felt like the 2 of us had known each other for
years and we connected straight away. We
share the same views on running a school, how we teach students and both wanted
the studio to have strong ties amongst the community.
I decided to start with 2 ballet lessons. Leading up I was
very excited. It was strange as during these last 7 years I would cry when
dance was brought up however something was different this time. My first class
I was pretty nervous although it felt great. My second class I was home. It all
felt perfect and meant to be. I was sore however that’s to be expected. I’m
learning how to teach with chronic pain.
I’m so incredibly happy to have returned to teaching
dance. I dislike that my chronic pain
exists however this is the way things are….. right now. I hope one day that it
will disappear. Until then dance is back and that’s pretty amazing.
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